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December 12, 2013 1

Visitors from outer space

By in Uncategorized

This past Saturday morning my friend and extremely talented hairdresser showed up here. Seeing her after 2+ months was a huge thrill! Steph was a big comfort to me after Shannon died, she’d been through a similar experience and was able to relate. She gave me lots of tough love and washed my hair for […]

November 11, 2013 2

Paradise?

By in friends, from mexico, love

There’s no denying it’s beautiful here. I went for a drive along the Pacific coast with a friend in his VW Thing yesterday. The goal was to end up at a beach where they release baby turtles. We did find it and paid the 60 pesos each to help (that’s about $5). The problem was […]

October 25, 2013 3

Checking In

By in food, friends, from mexico, Griping

First, to be super clear, I realize I don’t need a dog. It’s just that when one is put up on Craigslist for free and it’s spelled adorably incorrectly (“chiwawa”) the temptation is almost too overwhelming. No, I won’t contact them, but I want to, having a companion here would be very nice. Not that […]

October 4, 2013 2

Up

By in a good day, we have fun

My dad took me for a helicopter ride the other day, a first for both of us. It was way cool, zooming over the Niagara River, up to the falls. Yes, I took that picture.

September 28, 2013 11

Dear Shannon,

By in love

I know I talk to you every day but today is big: it’s your 40th birthday. I wish you were here to celebrate with me. I’d have made you a cake and hugged you carefully and kissed you a lot. I’d lean in and inhale your ears and beard and feel safe and loved. I […]

July 3, 2013 8

What I’m up to

By in caitlin's crap, daily grind

The easiest way to track me online is via instagram and/or twitter. My user name on both is notoriouscjt. Briefly, I gave up the studio on May 31 and put everything in 9′x10′ storage. Everything? Hardly. I farmed out all the paintings, gave away tons of stuff, sold a few things, threw away everything else. […]

May 27, 2013 7

The Dresses

By in crochet, making stuff is good

As per request, the dresses. I apologize for the Instagramification of it all, but I’m 100% iPad these days and can’t be bothered to pay for the good photoshop app. I do not have a picture of #1 because it was a test run. The pattern is called The Staple Dress, and it’s designed by […]

May 17, 2013 11

Sewing day

By in clothes, making stuff is good

So I finally got glasses. I had a pair years ago, picked while drunk and lost while drunk. They’d never been replaced because they were so expensive I thought all glasses were out of my financial reaches. So I asked for them for my birthday because reading was getting to be stupid. That’s me, today. […]

May 12, 2013 11

Bad Endings

By in friends, love

This is all I’m going to write about the last 2 months. A long time ago, 6 years, when I first got back together with Shannon, a lot of people weren’t terribly thrilled. My best friend at the time was particularly unhappy about it, she had been around during the first break up and she […]

March 16, 2013 49

Thank you

By in love, Uncategorized

I will write more when the shit has been cleared from the fan but I really wanted to let everyone know that you’re being heard. I have read every kind email and message and I promise to reply to each one when things calm down a little. And an especially big thank you for all […]